Whiteboards and Pulpits

This is my kind of Stamp. As I was preparing for my study of Exodus this year in our Community Group, I came across this quote by John Calvin in his Commentary on Exodus: ( Background : writing in regards to the Israelites being quickly switched from friend to slave in the early verses of Exodus) "...;and certainly it is good for us that evil should ever be our reward from men for our kindnesses , that we may learn in the performance of our duty to look to God alone, since otherwise we are unduly addicted to conciliate favour and applause for ourselves, or to seek after more earthly advantages." [John Calvin Commentary Exodus I.8, p.25] I am not writing a exposition to this passage or a formal response to John Calvin's quote. I was just humbled this morning as I read this. That our good, hard work, sacrfices, tears...can be rewarded with evil. Wow...that is not what you would think. I know I want a stink'n 'prize' at the end of my labors. B...

How To Train Your Dragon Spouse? Lesson One: Clear Communication Just started a new series for married couples. I pray this will help you smile a little, maybe even laugh, and ultimately build a stronger relationship with you and your spouse. We all know that clear communication is key to any good relationship. Notice that I did not say 'communication', I said 'clear communication.' Let me explain. I have a white lab that I simply love. He has a mind of his own and does just about anything. I can give communication to him...he may or may not listen. He may even turn and look at me and stare. He may even wag his tail. BUT, he may also turn and go right back to doing what I ask him not too (i.e. clean the dishes in the dishwasher). Then, I get frustrated and begin yelling and waving my hands...possibly pull off the Croc and do a little corrective training. ;) Of course the analogy instantly breaks down, your spouse is not a dog. But we all know there are...

The blood pressure is finally normalizing. Your hands regain heat and your nose is no longer cold. The rush of adenaline has now causing you think a little more rational and you are gaining composure. Words have been said. Doors possibly have been slammed shut. Long rides to the gas station have ended with garage door being shut and both parties are finally breathing normally. THE FIGHT IS OVER. No matter which side of the argument you are on. This is not the best moment for any marriage or friendship. But what is vital ....what is ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL...is not to respond in a minimizing of the situation. What does that look like you might ask? Resist Statements like: 1. "Sweetheart, I am sorry. But..." 2. "Sweetheart, I am sorry." 3. "It has been a rough week, and I am sorry." 4. "You just made me angry,...I am sorry." 5. "Its ok baby. Let's just don't worry about it." These statements sound very good on the ...